five poems

by Nicole Zwolinski



WE ARE DOING IT WRONG

 

Sometimes I leave my house, and I see children with swan necks swooped not in hearts but towards screens and I think wow, we have broken us. When I was in my junior year of college, my sister had a cell phone and switched plans so asked if I would take on her old plan until it expired. I said sure because I drove an hour to campus and thought it would be nice for emergencies and promptly forgot it existed and was so embarrassed for the person in the lecture hall whose shrill cell phone screamed through the professor’s speech and gutted the quiet of listening. Later, I discovered it was her phone, now mine, no one had that number. But it was my sister, she had the number, calling me because she thought she passed me on highway 10. It was several years after that before I had a cell phone and again, it was not really my choice it was more of a convenience - my boyfriend thought it would be a good idea so he wouldn’t have to call my parents land line to speak with me. It was just a tool then. Do you remember what that was like? Do you remember the sweet song of silence sitting with your thoughts? Now neighbor kids storm through my house shouting questions they want answered to Alexa or Siri and I say, “we don’t do that here.” But I don’t even think they know what that means, they just want answers to random shit from disembodied voices. We’ve long fed computers our data thinking we were a needle in the haystack not wanting quid pro quo to stand in the way of satiating our desire for more – be it knowledge, random facts, or things…. Ooo the things that we could pile around us like we are building a buffer, to keep reality from seeping in, hidden behind the best _____ that money can buy.

TO THE POSTPARTUM WOMAN TRYING ON NEW CLOTHES IN HER PRE-BABY SIZE

 After Kim Addonzio

 

If you ever clung to your six-week-old baby in a Target dressing room,

foolishly surrounded by crumpled joy in the form of retail therapy that

turned out to be hope laughing at you, I too have slumped on that bench.

Breastfeeding my baby in peace and puddled in the promise of bouncing

back while shoppers pushed their carts and mindlessly flung goods

off the shelves to grow their receipts like beanstalks.

 

If like a Gen Xer teetering on millennialism, you whipped out your

smart phone to capture your reflection of this raw moment of tears

gushing while you wished the breastmilk would flow like a flood

and exclusively feed your offspring and peel away the pounds

like your doctor and so many magazine articles promised, I too,

have stood on that scale waiting for change.

 

If you ever thought, you could open your closet and shake anorexia loose

from the skeletons and try it back on like your favorite sweater

that your college roommate stole, I too have run my hands over that darkness

like silk - remember that scientists discovered the physical intensity of pregnancy

is equal to running a 40-weeek marathon.

 

If you felt disappointment in the folds of your skin as you tried to stuff yourself

into jeans three sizes bigger, know that it’s ok to shed the expectations – it’s faster to lose than the bricks you built to incubate your babe. Buy the bigger jeans, wear clothes

you are comfortable in. You are still you, even if your body is not the same. Listen, you will be happy in your skin again.

THIS LITTLE GHOST

Nobody told me the havoc, and

agony a screaming uterus

could bestow upon a

woman.

 

Sure, I’d been ravaged

by monthly cramps

and collapsed on a futon

500 miles from home

 

calling my dad to cry

about the internal

tears that wept

painfully and bright

 

red. I bet nobody

prepared him for that

phone call either.

I learned to hold

 

the months alone

in a shaded corner

with heating pads

and Tylenol.

 

But there is a space

between knowing

and loss, that looks

like glory and beauty.

 

A brief, bloodless moment

where joy can be seen

in the distance –

furrowing under leaves

 

in October. The scarlet,

orange, and yellow ones.

Dry, but blank like

journals aching for cursive.

 

An echoing silence drips

from the stillest image.

And all the loneliness

in the world is bottled.

 

Packed in a to-go box

like leftovers from Applebees

when you ate out as an anorexic

in your twenties.

 

You bring that grief home and

slide it under your bed with your

used slippers that are gray with

dirt and time.

 

And then you wait… like a

hollow clock, but you still

keep hope in your heart

until your pelvis pulls

 

as if there are thumbs

tugging on your pubic

arch like a wishbone,

but the wish will

 

be curiously wadded up

in toilet paper and

stuffed under your sink

while you reckon

 

with heartbreak that will

never heal and never fade.

It’s a heartbreak that will

haunt you – this little ghost

 

that never lived,

never breathed,

never anything other than hope

and a ticker wrecked.

THE SHAME OF MIDDLE-AGE DIES WITH ME

 

I don’t want to be the woman

who laughs at your struggles.

 

Who says just you wait,

with glee rising to her eyes.

 

I don’t want the road to be harder for you,

just because it was rocky for me.

 

These women use to be the majority

and would eat suffering for lunch.

 

They measure your 27-inch waist

with their eyes and jealousy.

 

Envy pools at the edges of their lips

and they wipe it away with the cuffs

 

of their silk designer blouses

and scrape their cheek on tennis bracelets

 

gifted by their husbands out of obligation

and regret.

MY BEST FRIEND’S DAD VOLUNTEERED TO GIVE BREAST EXAMS

so we learned to curl our shoulders 

in and cave our budding breasts

inside the cage of our ribs

and lock them inside 

oversized sweatshirts 

and tees.

 

We accepted our bodies

as the butt of jokes

that were owned by the lips

of boys and men.

Men who were merely

slightly older

boys.

 

We opened our wallets

and peeled out $12.87

to fill our parents’

cars with gas 

and paid inside 

the station 

with babysitting cash.

 

While drinking the words 

of Smashing Pumpkins 

through paper cups of coffee

that was more candy

than coffee an indulgence

and bridge to adulthood -

thinking we knew 

what rage was.

 

We knew to court our keys,

squeezed in our innocent hands

that had drummed

our dashboards to Peal Jam, 

vintage Jeremy, our youth 

spilling from the stereo 

and we didn’t even know

we were still

so young.



Photo of Nicole Zwolinski

BIO: Nicole Zwolinski’s first full-length poetry collection, Motherhead is forthcoming by Finishing Line Press in August 2026. She has been published in the Feminine Collective, Firewords Quarterly, Alternate Routes, Effemera, the first Gather anthology and more. She was shortlisted for the Central Avenue Poetry prize and will have two poems featured in their 2026 anthology. You can find her on Instagram @nicolezwrites and links to all her other writing spaces there.

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